I am very late in blogging this news: everyone already knows that Peanut is a boy and that Kris and I have decided to name him Jackson Dean.
I have a great reason for not blogging yet and it has to do with an evil scanner and my computer-illiteracy. I wanted to include Peanut's (uhh Jackson's) ultrasounds in this post because they are really quite funny, his legs are spread and he seems
pretty darn pleased with himself. However, I don't have a scanner at home and the scanner at work is satanic.
(The printer/fax/scanner combo is not set up to a computer. Seems like an easy solution right? WRONG! My mac is not compatible with the software to connect to the scanner EVEN THOUGH it connects to print. What the heck...)I WILL update this blog asap with photos of Jackson's ultrasound once I gain access to a normal scanner that likes me.
Moving on to the doctor's appointment:I was originally supposed to find out Peanut's gender on Friday the 10th but the ultrasound tech had a family emergency and my appointment was rescheduled for Monday the 13th. Kris pulled all kinds of strings at work to get to be in Chattanooga instead of Fort Campbell during the appointment (including having a doctor's note faxed into his chain of command.)
Needless to say, the day had already started out stressful enough because I had to stop at my old OBGYN to pick up records and they conveniently "misplaced" Peanut's first ultrasound EVER from Fort Campbell. I was beyond livid. I think it is pretty reasonable for a first-time mom to want that memento but the receptionist acted as if I was being unreasonable. I couldn't wait around for her to find it so I had to leave to make it to my appointment.
In the waiting room, Kris and I waited for well over an hour before even being brought into an examination room. The entire time I was worried about work because my appointment was at 10 a.m. and realistically I should have been back at the office by now. When we were finally brought into the back, no examination rooms were open so we were placed in another doctor's personal office to wait.
Cue another 45 minutes of more waiting, during which my preggo self was fuming!! It was not a great first impression of a doctor's office that is for sure. The doctor whose office we were sitting in finally made an appearance and offered to do an initial consult because our doctor was busy. She was awkward, unperson-able and after reviewing our file stated the dreaded words:
"Well, it looks like everything in your pregnancy thus far is fine. We don't do ultrasounds until about 20 weeks so we will see you back in 3 weeks time."Cue my uncontrollable break-down of tears. I seriously could NOT stop crying and I NEVER cry. Poor Kris didn't know what to do and the "fill-in" doctor probably thought I was a crazy person.
In between hiccups and tears I explained to her that our appointment was rescheduled because the ultrasound tech was not in on Friday. If we were NEVER going to get an ultrasound to find out Peanut's gender than why was our appointment rescheduled? Kris and I firmly said we were not leaving until we had an ultrasound and met the doctor who would be delivering.
Moral of the story : I should have starting crying two hours ago and I would have been seen faster because as soon as the tears came everything fell in to place: they gave me an ultrasound 3 weeks earlier than their policy, my OBGYN set down and spoke with us and I got the blood work done for the genetic testing I wanted.
I am usually a pretty level-headed person but I think after everything that had happened to us that day, I just lost it when they made us wait 2 hours past appointment time and then didn't even have the appointment I was supposed to.
I think it will be funny to go back for my next appointment. I am sure nurses and employees will turn around and walk the other way to avoid
"the crazy lady."